My mission
I am an extensively trained psychotherapist who is passionately driven by a quest to help people find the kind of future or transformation that is eluding them. My training is ongoing, and in fact will never end so vast is the domain of psychotherapy. I am specialized in two psychotherapeutic approaches: Solution-Focused Brief Therapy and Somatic Experiencing. The first, which puts hope up front and stresses the upward striving, is characterized by a persistent focus on the outcome that you want, which implies an orientation to the present and future rather than the past, except insofar as the past contains hints of the future that you are seeking and emotional experiences that you need to share with me. The second approach is characterized by a focus on the body in order to facilitate an upsurge of wisdom and creativity - of which people are generally unaware - that is hiding within you and waiting for you to utilize. (See The Issue Is in the Tissue, below.)

I believe that my multicultural background (I have lived in six cities spanning three continents (North America - I grew up in Canada - Europe and the Middle East)) has enabled me to relate with greater empathy and understanding to people characterized by a broad variety of living conditions - material, affective, spiritual and social. To be effective, a therapist must attune to your culture and belief system. Otherwise, communication - both cognitive and emotional - will be challenged. Cultural diversity should be the order of the day for us therapists.
The Principles and Convictions that Underlie My Way of Working

The Power of Creativity
Perhaps the most important cornerstone of my psychotherapeutic practice is my fascination with creativity, which I have researched intensively over the years in collaboration with Paris Descartes University. This universal human attribute can have a transformative effect on our psychotherapeutic sessions. It can breathe life into sessions that seem to be stuck and going nowhere. In addition, it can tap into your ability to overcome obstacles through the exercise of your imagination, which lies at the basis of creativity.
There Is Nothing Wrong with You That Cannot Be Fixed by What Is Right with You.
It's all a question of focus, in particular a focus on your strengths and resources, as opposed to psychopathological diagnoses.
A Problem Is a Solution in the Making.
That solution lies in you and can be coaxed out of you by your innate creativity even if you are not aware that you have it. My task, in the fashion of a midwife, is to help you give birth to your solution-building skills and the creativity that goes with them.
The Issue Is in the Tissue.
In somatic experiencing, through a simple focus on the body it becomes possible to tap into the energy and intuitive wisdom transmitted to the internal organs largely by the polyvagal (= much-wandering) nerve. This energy manifests itself in the form of meaning-loaded, creativity-generating sensations, images, emotions and movements. These, in turn, can enhance the solution-oriented thoughts coming from the thinking brain. In short, top-down thinking and bottom-up feeling become integrated in what could be called a magic synthesis. One has to experience just how dramatically this process plays out in order to believe it.
Areas in Which I Can Help
These involve primarily individual therapy for adolescents and adults (including older adults, for whom end-of-life issues loom large) perturbed by relational disturbances and mood disorders. In addition, I do couple therapy, in which I adopt approaches based, among other methods, on feedback of emotional experience to the partners, the encouragement of mutual intensive listening by the partners, and the damping down of outbursts through a substantial slowing down of speech. Often trauma lies at the root of couple trouble, which calls for specific body-oriented trauma-healing skills, in which I am specialized. (See Academic Qualifications, below.)
I'm Not Here to Waste Your Time and Money.
I am here, in fact, to put myself out of business. Therapy is brief in the sense that not one more session is held than is needed, and it is you who decides the need.
Academic Qualifications
- Batchelor of Science (mathematics and psychology), McGill University, Montreal
- Masters in clinical psychology, University of Liège, Belgium
- Doctoral training (psychotherapeutic creativity), University of Mons, Belgium & Paris Descartes University
- Proficiency Certificate in Solution-Focused Brief Therapy, Korzybski Instituut, Bruges, Belgium
- Proficiency Certificate in Somatic Experiencing, International Trauma-Healing Institute, Los Angeles
- Intermediate Certificate in Hypnosis Therapy, Institut de Nouvelle Hypnose, Brussels, Belgium
- Numerous trauma-oriented upgrading trainings including courses in Internal Family Systems and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing
Practicalities
Sessions are possible by zoom or on location.
Languages: English (native language), French and Dutch, in decreasing order of proficiency
Fee: € 65 per session (on average, 1hr15mins); I am with you to fulfill a mission, not to mind the clock. If you are experiencing financial difficulties, I will charge you on a sliding scale based on your means.
Contact
+32-476 439 322 | |
jefnetan@gmail.com | |
Van Eycklei 39, ground floor opposite the Stadspark 2018 Antwerp, Belgium |